SLOW DATING BUDAPEST
Social Relationships
1. What do you value most in a relationship?
2. What does relationship mean to you?
3. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
6. As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
7. How do you feel about your relationship with your parents?
8. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ...
9. If you were going to become a romantic partner with your conversation partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
10. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
11. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
12. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
13. What would your ex warn me about dating you?
14. Do you believe in love?
15. What are your deal breakers in a romantic partner?
16. What is your vision of an ideal relationship?
17. What relationship advice would you give to your daughter / son?
19. What would you consider as an ideal date?
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Vision
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If you were famous, what would you be famous for?
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If you were left on a deserted island with either your worst enemy or no one, which would you choose? Why?
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If aliens landed on earth tomorrow and offered to take you home with them, would you go?
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What would your dream house be like?
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You can have anyone fictional as your imaginary friend, who do you choose and why?
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If you host your own funeral before you die, what would you say to those who come?
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If you had a time machine, would go back in time or into the future?
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If you could choose any two famous people to have dinner with who would they be?
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If you could be any supernatural creature, what would you be and why?
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If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
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If you could be immortal, what age would you choose to stop aging at and why?
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If you could be immortal, who would you spend the first 500 years of your life?
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Would you rather meet your travel back in time to meet your ancestors or to the future to meet your descendants?
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Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
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If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
Career, Money& Success
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What is your absolute dream job?
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What’s one career you wish you could have?
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If you could do anything in the world as your career, what would you do?
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If you could instantly become an expert in something, what would it be?
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Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
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Say you’re independently wealthy and don’t have to work, what would you do with your time?
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If you could be guaranteed one thing in life (besides money), what would it be?
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Would you rather be the funniest or smartest person in the room?
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For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
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If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
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What is your attitude toward money and material success?
Self
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What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
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When you die, what do you want to be remembered for?
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What would your talent be if you were Miss or Mister World?
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What would the title of your autobiography be?
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What superpower do you want and why?
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What is your favorite time of the day and why?
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What is on your bucket list and have you completed any?
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What’s is one thing we don’t know about you?
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If you could live anywhere in the world for a year, where would it be?
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If you could choose any person from history to be your imaginary friend, who would it be and why?
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If you had to teach a class on one thing, what would you teach?
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Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
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What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?